WHY ME? Why should I have to endure all these problems?
Does it seem sometimes that stress inducing bad things gang up on you all at once? You may wonder: “Why me? Why do all the bad things happen to me!”?
Well they don’t. We’ve all had pity parties.Many are justified, but they can’t continue you will suffer the consequences.If you make a list of “your bad things” and compare them with someone else’s you are sure to find many people have it worse than you do. Think about it.
If that thought doesn’t mean much to you because it’s not “you”, then think about this: you need to rethink what is happening, and respond to it with intellect and calm – for you!.
No matter what happens to you, there is always a different way to see things. The truth is bad things happen to good people. Every human on this planet has endured at least one crisis, and many people, more than a few of them.
You may not deserve one bad thing to happen to you, but things do happen, and what happens – happens! The only choice you have is to broaden your perspective, and focus on learning from the incidents, and moving forward.
You may find that years down the road, your life changed for the better because of a specific past trauma. Your character has been honed and your wisdom too.
If you succumb to today’s trials you’re done! Even if you haven’t been able to find, to date, the “good” from the past you’ve endured, you will recognize it when it is time.
Don’t give up. Don’t give in! When something triggers potential negatively charged emotions, take a breath! If you are new to “the magic”, prior posts tell you how to begin to breathe and manage different stresses in your life.
What you “feel” about circumstances evolve into your life. The power of thought, when rightly directed, is the key to it all. You will draw all the injury, all the anger, and all the fear to you like a magnet.
Likewise, if you think forgiveness, love, appreciation and hope,
you will draw all the joy and positive thoughts from the world to you. This will trigger a pattern of blossoming in you.
Negative or positive thoughts, they are probably sparked with the same triggers, simply different interpretations.
Right thought holds the key to every situation. Be regenerated and transformed by your thoughts. Today is the day.
Choose to create your reality.